tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-283678862024-03-07T13:21:35.315-05:00Writer's BlockCompletely random musings to clear a cluttered brain.Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07164732848835553863noreply@blogger.comBlogger1632125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28367886.post-28705883904537859222023-10-09T09:24:00.007-04:002023-10-19T15:35:52.456-04:00Time Marches On<p><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;"></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBPYnLjHaX_r0NBg3JXe9_ftSCJTI8p6cTZhUJqu8tQKwUpkMizFmot_yws_Y3vi3A2ULhkwMzWWq3oAWj71vEC_KZQ_YJFiZTiVraXyrqXVQk_sqz4mR1_yMf6gjTGdT3LU-9uKS9awcWyWVIaTTAcrC0bzKHbpvh1IK2uQGxcO_CXMV9iiZx/s950/Calendar-Photo.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="500" data-original-width="950" height="210" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBPYnLjHaX_r0NBg3JXe9_ftSCJTI8p6cTZhUJqu8tQKwUpkMizFmot_yws_Y3vi3A2ULhkwMzWWq3oAWj71vEC_KZQ_YJFiZTiVraXyrqXVQk_sqz4mR1_yMf6gjTGdT3LU-9uKS9awcWyWVIaTTAcrC0bzKHbpvh1IK2uQGxcO_CXMV9iiZx/w400-h210/Calendar-Photo.jpg" width="400" /></a></div>When I was going into 8<sup style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;">th</sup><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;">grade, my family stayed with my aunt and uncle for the summer while our house was being built. It was an idyllic time, filled with warm, summery memories: learning to cook pancakes in my aunt’s ancient iron pans; swimming in my aunt’s new pool; and eating Herr’s potato chips with cream-cheese-and-chive dip while playing late-night monopoly games.</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;"> </span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;">In the back of my mind, there was always the faint reminder that we were starting at a new school in the fall. But I tried to push off the thought and live one day at a time. Still, it would creep into my mind and send butterflies fluttering around my stomach. I knew it was inevitable. (Time marches on without any need for permission from us. We can plead with it, beg it to stop or, at the very least, slow down…but it will always ignore us.)<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;">Yet, it was okay. The new school became the old school and, before I knew it, I was graduating.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;">It’s the same way I’ve felt with my children. They grow at an alarming rate of speed – changing numbers in 365 days, maturing with life’s experiences and stretching towards the sky. <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;">I know that I’ve lamented this for most of the years that I’ve kept this blog (and most of the years that preceded that). But it’s like their childhoods were that same endless summer that would eventually – and inevitably – end up with them growing up and getting jobs and moving into their own places. I tried to push off the thought, like before, but the butterflies always returned.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;">And Time never blinks…not once. The quick passage doesn’t surprise it. It doesn’t concern it.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;">All the young moms on social media notice it. They know it will happen since they’ve been told it will happen; yet it still surprises them because it happens so quickly.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;">I once read something that said to really pay attention to the little things that pass: the last time they reach up to be held; the last time you help them take a bath or wash their hair; the last time you feed them; or rock them; or hold their hand on a walk…<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;">But you know what? You can’t. You’re so busy moving along with them towards all of their new milestones and adventures that you don’t notice the passage of all these little moments.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;">Like the summer before I started 8<sup>th</sup> grade. Eventually, it will be time to “start school.”<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;">The older two kids are finishing at university this year...and living on their own...and, before long, looking for jobs.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-size: 18.666666px;">Yet it still will be okay.</span> <o:p></o:p></span></p>Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07164732848835553863noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28367886.post-11178237146556201742023-04-18T09:16:00.001-04:002023-04-18T09:16:06.684-04:00Here's a Tip<p><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;"><br />Something to think about today…and I hope this goes viral.</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjZROBKSY-YBIZT3l4EqA2zL0z97WrUlNGCWCVI2pZwFM66zx7BDWjQMgZPCgk7oK8h2wG34gnorXViek9iPj4T_JpHKUDWCm_7NzA9QRw0Qcf-w4DZY2gcrmeUhDa6-m6dDPxGQdxVL5-rdTwjhnp4uUaNkCcoZmNrpPGAwpQbP6NfY8zJ8w" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="1281" data-original-width="1284" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjZROBKSY-YBIZT3l4EqA2zL0z97WrUlNGCWCVI2pZwFM66zx7BDWjQMgZPCgk7oK8h2wG34gnorXViek9iPj4T_JpHKUDWCm_7NzA9QRw0Qcf-w4DZY2gcrmeUhDa6-m6dDPxGQdxVL5-rdTwjhnp4uUaNkCcoZmNrpPGAwpQbP6NfY8zJ8w" width="241" /></a></div><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;">If you use a service like DoorDash, UberEats, Shipt, Instacart, etc., remember to TIP your delivery person. You aren’t using a service to save money…you are choosing it to <i>save time</i>. BUT you are taking someone else’s time – and gas; someone who is acting as your <b>personal</b> shopper or food deliverer. <o:p></o:p></span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;">Yes, it’s a job. But the pay is paltry – not unlike wait staff in restaurant and hair stylists – and it still takes time, especially if that person tries their very hardest to do their best. Ten percent is a good starting point. Reward more for exceptionality.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;">I get it. I was a terrible tipper. I assumed that they made a decent wage (Google will tell you they do, but the pay formula is built on the assumption that they get tipped), and that they didn’t really need a tip unless they did an exceptional job. <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;">Like everyone else, I’m trying to save money on my groceries. If that’s the case, I need to drive to the store myself and pick up my groceries. Saving time using a personal shopper does not equate to saving money. For some, it might mean saving money spent on gas going to the store. But you are using the gas of another, and that’s not covered by their delivery service companies. <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;">Consider changing how you think about these services and tip your driver. I know it’s not mandatory, but it is an encouragement to those trying to earn real money through these jobs. We all enjoy the service we get…now let’s remember to pay fully for it.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;"> </span></p>Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07164732848835553863noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28367886.post-65473602600446712023-01-12T03:44:00.001-05:002023-01-12T10:16:27.617-05:00Soul, It Is...Well<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEiylkdTIk316hegI6NgfU8kTqZPJmQOtHwd8TRPtoSBTbP3JLfJcubE9wsQqavw9qcbchG_QEvQQjnyX4tNXjTODAKkWxF-IPvtWpOmYqqf7GB-YHdNmm1qmpKygLRZ_OrQs_DKTZ23pKg1kce-aNSD2I7F45MFstPPZC_bTmjA5RKGV5EGcQ" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="917" data-original-width="907" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEiylkdTIk316hegI6NgfU8kTqZPJmQOtHwd8TRPtoSBTbP3JLfJcubE9wsQqavw9qcbchG_QEvQQjnyX4tNXjTODAKkWxF-IPvtWpOmYqqf7GB-YHdNmm1qmpKygLRZ_OrQs_DKTZ23pKg1kce-aNSD2I7F45MFstPPZC_bTmjA5RKGV5EGcQ=w316-h320" width="316" /></a></div><span style="font-family: georgia;">Six and a half years ago, in August 2016, I received some of the most devastating personal news of my life: I had breast cancer.</span><p></p><p><span style="font-family: georgia;">It was a surreal moment. My head spun and my heart raced. I didn't know what to say to the doctor on the other end of the phone call. I felt wordless.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: georgia;">But God, as He always does, put the exact right person in that position at exactly the right moment. The doctor who called wasn't the surgeon I'd been seeing. He was just the one on duty that day. He didn't know me, but he did understand cancer since he'd already had it, as well. He gave me space to process the news and then explained the type of cancer I had and the prognosis, which he noted was very good. If I had to have cancer, it was a "good" one to have, he said. He wasn't a fortune teller, psychic, or visionary -- just someone who understood from experience and his job.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: georgia;">The next month and a half was filled with appointments and plans. My surgery was scheduled for a few days after my birthday in mid-October.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: georgia;">I won't lie and say I wasn't nervous. But God placed the first verse and refrain from the old hymn, "It Is Well with My Soul," in my head and that helped me through that time. He reminded me of the words and the story behind them. And, because of that, I had a tremendous peace.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: georgia;">From Wikipedia: The hymn was written by Horatio Spafford after many traumatic events in his life. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: georgia;">The first two were the death of his four-year-old son and the Great Chicago Fire of 1871, which ruined him financially (he had been a successful lawyer and had invested significantly in property in the area of Chicago that was extensively damaged by the great fire). His business interests were further hit by the economic downturn of 1873, at which time he had planned to travel to England with his family on the Ville du Havre for D. L. Moody's upcoming evangelistic campaigns. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: georgia;">In a late change of plan, he sent the family ahead while he was delayed on business concerning zoning problems following the Great Chicago Fire. While crossing the Atlantic Ocean, the ship sank rapidly after a collision with a sea vessel, the Loch Line, and all four of Horatio's daughters died. His wife Anna survived and sent him the now famous telegram, "Saved alone …" </span></p><p><span style="font-family: georgia;">Shortly afterwards, as Horatio traveled to meet his grieving wife, he was inspired to write these words as his ship passed near where his daughters had died.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: trebuchet;"><b><span style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(32, 33, 34); color: #202122;">When peace like a river, attendeth my way,</span><br style="caret-color: rgb(32, 33, 34); color: #202122;" /><span style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(32, 33, 34); color: #202122;">When sorrows like sea billows roll;</span><br style="caret-color: rgb(32, 33, 34); color: #202122;" /><span style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(32, 33, 34); color: #202122;">Whatever my lot, Thou hast taught me to know</span><br style="caret-color: rgb(32, 33, 34); color: #202122;" /><span style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(32, 33, 34); color: #202122;">It is well, it is well, with my soul.</span><br style="caret-color: rgb(32, 33, 34); color: #202122;" /><br style="caret-color: rgb(32, 33, 34); color: #202122;" /><i style="caret-color: rgb(32, 33, 34); color: #202122;">Refrain</i><br style="caret-color: rgb(32, 33, 34); color: #202122;" /><span style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(32, 33, 34); color: #202122;">It is well, (it is well),</span><br style="caret-color: rgb(32, 33, 34); color: #202122;" /><span style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(32, 33, 34); color: #202122;">With my soul, (with my soul)</span><br style="caret-color: rgb(32, 33, 34); color: #202122;" /><span style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(32, 33, 34); color: #202122;">It is well, it is well, with my soul.</span></b></span></p><p><span style="font-family: georgia;">If a man who had lost so much could say that, I, with curable cancer, could repeat the same words. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: georgia;">Praise God!</span></p>Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07164732848835553863noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28367886.post-61756617340401231622023-01-08T10:19:00.001-05:002023-01-12T10:33:35.381-05:00Goodbye, Old Friend<br /><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjEwKIBHsrck02uEuRZyZkQiO49yeDpG4HZ1YEHRVcYAdXpvANWauADizU7qcZZjJ9K9CxH_M6sRXoqLl2fdsmmrNSfpYRLwKuzbqt4EBeaWzl3VQOo_X4GgA4et9PxUUvUaMOAdmtGznrRl_LqebHr5CKSTkLlx_D6Dmw7pEc4y2UbIqDS8w" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="1296" data-original-width="968" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjEwKIBHsrck02uEuRZyZkQiO49yeDpG4HZ1YEHRVcYAdXpvANWauADizU7qcZZjJ9K9CxH_M6sRXoqLl2fdsmmrNSfpYRLwKuzbqt4EBeaWzl3VQOo_X4GgA4et9PxUUvUaMOAdmtGznrRl_LqebHr5CKSTkLlx_D6Dmw7pEc4y2UbIqDS8w=w298-h400" width="298" /></a></div></div><div>Written soon after he died nearly five years ago...shared now because we miss him...</div><div>
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And with a final wag, we bid goodbye to our precious Buster Brown, our first family pooch of nearly 16 years.<br />
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I am reminded of the story told through <i>Marley and Me</i>. The author, being a journalist, chronicled his dog's life through a column he wrote for the newspaper.<br />
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A dog's life.<br />
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Many live fewer years than our sweet dog. We were blessed. We know that and accept that gift with a huge amount of gratitude.<br />
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Often, after the loss of a pet, my husband expresses his sadness by saying he doesn't want any more pets...he wished he didn't have to feel such pain. But I always counter him with the fact that if we didn't have the pet we wouldn't have had the joy they brought.<br />
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Yes, it's hard. VERY hard. Sometimes it feels as if our hearts might break. But it's also beautiful.<br />
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A sweet friend reminded me that Buster lived "a long, loved life."<br />
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And he did. Always smiling. Always happy. Always grateful. (He wouldn't start eating without us patting him and saying, "You're welcome!")<br />
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I like to remember him that way.<br />
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Loved for a long time.</div>Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07164732848835553863noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28367886.post-76257027396899484822022-11-05T15:25:00.011-04:002022-11-06T14:18:38.921-05:00Saturday Sweethearts<p><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;"></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEgGpkkGNKD3Bgzn73B0rb4pDcH3zzb4y8WITxaTJVfsj3uaDF1Z1SNFzcCaHVJGNe5RVV_yoX3IDph6oftIgcTRjahZXSlw1d_gDBl_lyp2KxvOE5mINzHWxHGgQopjdMsIvWCe-yKGrdQUSVvvyFFkNkAbfCRMHB4kene6lJ-Bd9kP7-Q8nQ" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><br /></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEgGpkkGNKD3Bgzn73B0rb4pDcH3zzb4y8WITxaTJVfsj3uaDF1Z1SNFzcCaHVJGNe5RVV_yoX3IDph6oftIgcTRjahZXSlw1d_gDBl_lyp2KxvOE5mINzHWxHGgQopjdMsIvWCe-yKGrdQUSVvvyFFkNkAbfCRMHB4kene6lJ-Bd9kP7-Q8nQ" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="1194" data-original-width="1284" height="373" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEgGpkkGNKD3Bgzn73B0rb4pDcH3zzb4y8WITxaTJVfsj3uaDF1Z1SNFzcCaHVJGNe5RVV_yoX3IDph6oftIgcTRjahZXSlw1d_gDBl_lyp2KxvOE5mINzHWxHGgQopjdMsIvWCe-yKGrdQUSVvvyFFkNkAbfCRMHB4kene6lJ-Bd9kP7-Q8nQ=w400-h373" width="400" /></a></span></div><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;"><div style="text-align: right;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: x-small;">Ethan with Jazzy and Jujubee (2019)</span></div><div>Hold my paw.</div></span><p></p><p><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;">I don’t know if I can.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;">Why not?</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;">I don’t feel brave enough.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;">You’re braver than you think.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;">I wish you didn’t have to go.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;">I need to go. I have bigger places – and God – to see.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;">I wish I’d done more for you.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;">You did your best.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;">But it wasn’t enough. 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Me and all the others. And won’t that be glorious? Oh, so glorious...<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;">....</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;">Hop far, sweet bunny. And always remember I loved you. </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;">Rest peacefully, precious Jezzy. Kiss Jujubee for us.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;">….<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;">The night is long…but the days are, oh, so short.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif;">….<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; 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font-size: medium;">This is precious little Molly, my Himalayan Netherland Dwarf, who turns 6 years old on 7/13.</span></p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEg7WhMVHLIAVSd9_S8ShtBskDtO1gcNr_0tDGTdAJQsLR8_AttK5NqRF9f4_loZZu7CQR1aZLR2STOrcbfIO3hkgmdGU5ghPt371-ZZZlIOrJSeBap3yv-u8NtzKgRl9zkPb1SLzSv2GZ2sLZxygcqlN0ihEBcPcNPeXfEoieiMI0yK9H_Rhw" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="3088" data-original-width="2316" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEg7WhMVHLIAVSd9_S8ShtBskDtO1gcNr_0tDGTdAJQsLR8_AttK5NqRF9f4_loZZu7CQR1aZLR2STOrcbfIO3hkgmdGU5ghPt371-ZZZlIOrJSeBap3yv-u8NtzKgRl9zkPb1SLzSv2GZ2sLZxygcqlN0ihEBcPcNPeXfEoieiMI0yK9H_Rhw" width="180" /></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjA16ifKKjnqF4E203TjqB7KL08ekXw-KPY-9-eTExUj-DDrHW3e9CT2Xh_jq4A4CvrKsme3CBhhsIul669LZjLVKCcwMyijtosHcJQiFDvxtQkW1yJMTn7HruO1sEET3l7uPTNTA95Ur6QzEyy4XDufyLCg77GshzdhggiIPd2X83DZNHuew" style="font-family: times; 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Mitsy-Bitsy. She was my world, my BFF, my confidante. </span><p></p><p><span style="font-family: times; font-size: large;">I told her secrets of sadnesses and joys. I shared food with her and dressed her in hats and sweaters and took her for bike rides in my bicycle basket. When we went for walks, she rode around in the hood of my sweatshirts. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: times; font-size: large;">She, in turn, gave me kisses, licked away my tears, and cuddled up close when I needed a hug. She gave me a litter of kits on Easter. She was the perfect first bunny for a girl who had desperately wanted her own pet. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: times; font-size: large;">The “bunny-bug” had bitten me, and the rest is — as they say — history. </span></p>Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07164732848835553863noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28367886.post-34544669939263731792022-06-30T07:59:00.004-04:002022-06-30T08:00:48.095-04:00Remembering...<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3Es-qVbl7N4aBa1mDa904xDLCq4oZ-AblU8jvrTt79QtFf6nc0fkl1Qk80gkvQl6OaBM5lLJZo03THmRne3PoWkbvawi2NsVW4-Smm5k30Euf7_-Gt9lQza_tFI-UXVxrNLRBSx4CxVR7QwVz_1uHuC2JkYPhIuOFEQJWvXw1SI_MBLRtXw/s4032/IMG_7937.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="3024" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3Es-qVbl7N4aBa1mDa904xDLCq4oZ-AblU8jvrTt79QtFf6nc0fkl1Qk80gkvQl6OaBM5lLJZo03THmRne3PoWkbvawi2NsVW4-Smm5k30Euf7_-Gt9lQza_tFI-UXVxrNLRBSx4CxVR7QwVz_1uHuC2JkYPhIuOFEQJWvXw1SI_MBLRtXw/w240-h320/IMG_7937.jpeg" width="240" /></a></div>Sometimes, when you think too much time has passed, you head back to something or someone familiar, and it all clicks back into place...at least for that moment. Like friends who haven't seen each other for decades and come back together like no time has passed, as if they both went home at the end of a day and returned in the morning. "As I was saying..." one might say, without missing a beat.<p></p><p>Sometimes.</p><p>Life has a strange way of taking us on twists and turns, uphill and downhill, back and forth. Memories flood our brains, holding us back or pushing us forward. </p><p>We're all a product of those memories, our past times and events and happenings -- good and bad. How do we reckon with them? How do we not allow them to drag us down or pull us under?</p><p>It's a difficult process. Certainly doable. </p><p>Children are mirrors of those memories. They go through ages and phases that we can somewhat remember, that become very clear when we watch our offspring go through them. Of course, their experiences are different. But the fuzzy recollection of our own experiences comes back into focus...at least for that moment.</p><p>And we remember. And the memories, like old friends, take us on journeys back to times that feel forgotten yet are still in the foreground. </p><p>"As I was saying..." the memory says, without missing a beat.</p><p><br /></p>Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07164732848835553863noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28367886.post-18651186099022884942022-06-29T08:05:00.001-04:002022-06-30T08:05:48.252-04:00Wordless Wednesday<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdpltEBCcbe8SbCqYtk6H-IPwSZGHIsoIiLGB0xFAa_MhctxKKhOq8pilHRq0eCHFZHJBDJSxVOyfYJhvnCTL5KKE07PsIRh8HhswEkpE_xOF7eTFUNZI7Pb7AOeGOipUwvnNQMcwhMLut8Iz5wwgmeUEwYIIaOh5EoxOhZvYC0OAYQaFz1A/s2048/IMG_0128.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdpltEBCcbe8SbCqYtk6H-IPwSZGHIsoIiLGB0xFAa_MhctxKKhOq8pilHRq0eCHFZHJBDJSxVOyfYJhvnCTL5KKE07PsIRh8HhswEkpE_xOF7eTFUNZI7Pb7AOeGOipUwvnNQMcwhMLut8Iz5wwgmeUEwYIIaOh5EoxOhZvYC0OAYQaFz1A/w480-h640/IMG_0128.JPG" width="480" /></a></div><br /> <p></p>Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07164732848835553863noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28367886.post-91726043002665979632020-06-02T11:51:00.002-04:002020-06-03T06:14:23.340-04:00In These Times<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">I am not racist deep in my heart. I love people. Just people. I don’t care what they look like, who they are, what their ancestry is. I might disagree with their actions or attitudes, but that’s not who they are as a person, and their pigmentation does not affect that.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Despite what the media wants us to believe, we have made great strides against racism. Look around. It is a fair to say that the world has a plethora of "people of different pigmentations" working, living, and educating together. There are still places that have issues, but those are neighborhood issues. (See <a href="https://www.cnn.com/2020/05/25/us/chicago-memorial-day-deaths/index.html" target="_blank">Chicago and Memorial Day Weekend</a>.) The wrong acts of one person do not equal the sum of the rest of the population’s beliefs.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Go home. Gather your family. Pray for peace. Love your neighbor MORE than yourself. And stop telling me who I am. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">God made you and me who we are. And only He knows our hearts. </span><span style="font-family: "calibri" , sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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I love looking at their photos and talking about how sweet they were and sharing memories of funny or poignant moments with them.<br />
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I remember first teeth and them learning to walk and the way they marveled at just about anything new and exciting. They loved being outside and had a cute way of pronouncing things. I loved watching them learn to read and write and draw. I loved making things with them and celebrating countless birthdays, half-birthdays, and holidays with them. Easter eggs and Christmas visits to New York to see the Macy's Santa with the deli breath. "Picnics in the Park" on the Eve of Christmas Eve. Early morning trips to Chincoteague in the summer and the fall and the beginning of a brand new year. Singing children's songs and then '80s songs at the tops of our lungs. Knowing all the words to the Veggie Tales, especially the end theme song from QWERTY.<br />
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Career goals: Fashion designer, hotel designer/owner, architect, marine biologist, inventor.<br />
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I remember how earnest they were about certain things and how they tried very hard to understand a complex grown-up world with the simple mind of a child. How they tried to share their thoughts on politics or movie stars or books they read.<br />
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It's as though now they see that child as someone else instead of a younger and smaller version of themselves.<br />
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How could I love <i>that</i> child any more than I love the grown (or growing) version I see at present?<br />
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Perhaps the past really <i>is</i> a foreign country...and those little people in the photos and memories are merely the residents, long gone as the years progress.<br />
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<span style="font-size: medium;"><i>No, dear children, I couldn't possibly love that little-person version of you more than I love you now...for you </i>are<i> that little person now a bit bigger. And I love that bigger person even more today than I did yesterday.</i></span><br />
<span style="font-size: medium;"><i><br /></i></span>Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07164732848835553863noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28367886.post-17609864292453373412020-01-18T14:09:00.000-05:002020-01-19T14:12:44.286-05:00If I Take the TimeA memory:<br />
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When Ethan was five years old, he gave me a crumpled napkin that I assumed he wanted me to throw away.<br />
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I laughed and told <i>him</i> to throw it out.<br />
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He insisted that I open it that it was "a gift," he said.<br />
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I did and saw this inside.<br />
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"It's my love!" he said with a big smile.<br />
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And afterwards I realized that I nearly missed it in my haste to toss out what I thought was trash.<br />
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Sometimes we need to slowdown and enjoy these precious moments.Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07164732848835553863noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28367886.post-76162794513772814382019-05-09T05:30:00.000-04:002019-05-17T20:49:01.898-04:00At Home in the City<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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My brain is ruminating...and so I must ramble a bit...<br />
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I have always enjoyed exploring the world.<br />
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I grew up moving around to different towns in different states, so my family spent a lot of time getting to know new places.<br />
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Because of that, being a tourist is easy in one of my favorite cities.<br />
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There are the usual places to see -- the Empire State Building, the Rockefeller Center, the Statue of Liberty, the Subway, the World Trade Center.<br />
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But my favorite way to see and feel and know the city is to find a coffee shop early in the morning, sit at a table in the window, and watch the world go by. It may seem a strange way to "sightsee," and yet it gives me a chance to see the heart of the city, what makes it truly beat: a mom walking her children to school; a businessman scurrying by, coffee in one hand, a briefcase in the other; teenage girls engrossed in their music and texts, laughing together as they walk to their classes; an older couple stumbling along hand-in-hand; a gaggle of schoolchildren scattering behind two harried teachers on their way to a museum; and more.<br />
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And if I sit long enough, I'll see the process repeated in reverse, each person on his or her way home, thinking about the happenings and memories of the day, each a protagonist in his or her own story. Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07164732848835553863noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28367886.post-22684916840701525122019-05-08T05:30:00.000-04:002019-05-08T05:30:01.444-04:00Wordless Wednesday<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<br />Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07164732848835553863noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28367886.post-87183891191643661582019-05-07T06:33:00.000-04:002019-05-07T18:45:54.522-04:00Book Review: Jocelyn's Box of SocksI am a huge lover of children's books. It's no secret. I've been collecting them since I was a teenager. Working for <i>Highlights for Children</i> and Boyds Mills Press was a dream come true. Me surrounded by kids' books? Game on.<br />
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So recently I noticed that the wife of a friend (from long ago) had a children's book coming out this month, and I approached her about reviewing it on here. I think it's quite an honor to promote a fellow writer, and I plan to make these reviews a regular part of my blog. <br />
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<i>Jocelyn's Box of Socks</i><br />
Written by Kristen L. Jackson<br />
Illustrated by Tino Santanach<br />
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From the first look, <i>Jocelyn's Box of Socks</i> is full of cheer. The cover is bright and pink, and the illustrations are fun and cartoon-like.<br />
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To me, it was all kinds of happy before I even opened the cover.<br />
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The beauty of children's books is their appeal to multiple audiences. A good book in this genre will offer an engaging story for children with enough substance for teachers/parents/grandparents/librarians to be able to use it for teaching a lesson or discussing a value or something similar. No preaching. Many kids learn best from mimicking what they see/hear demonstrated around them. It gives them a "this is what to do" kind of lesson without just saying "don't do this."<br />
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In <i>Jocelyn's Box of Socks</i>, we learn from the very beginning (even in the title) that the main character, Jocelyn, loves socks. She "loves all kinds of socks -- except boring, dull, plain old ordinary, all-white socks." The reader finds out she wears them in all seasons and with all kinds of shoes. She wears them because they make her feel happy.<br />
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Then one day, Jocelyn receives a box of socks from her grandparents. Since they know that she loves socks of all kinds, they send her a box of socks with different smiley emojis on them. Each pair is a different smiley emotion. Jocelyn is instantly in love and, after (unsuccessfully) trying to wear them all, she has to decide how to choose which ones to wear. She makes the decision to wear the socks that match her mood, starting with the happy faces. After a series of events in which she has to continually change her socks to match her current mood, she feels confused and frustrated as to what to do. She consults her brother with her quandary, and he suggests that she just wear the socks that she wants to, no matter what mood she feels. She loves this idea and even sees that she can mix and match her socks no matter what her mood because wearing socks makes her happy.<br />
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The book has a lot of positives beyond the story and pictures. The underlying theme of talking about emotions and how they can change is a gift to teachers, especially of younger kids who may not be able to verbalize about feelings just yet. The cadence and repetition of the kinds of socks Jocelyn likes furthers the fun and encourages kids to join in. <br />
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All in all, <i>Jocelyn's Box of Socks</i> is a fun and bouncy book that opens discussions about how we all have emotions -- big and small, good and bad — and they can change quickly. A bonus classroom guide is included in the back with discussion questions and activity suggestions.<br />
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Release date is May 28.<br />
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Well, it's been awhile, huh?<br />
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I know. I know. I promised I would try to do better...but, in fact, I feel like I've done worse.<br />
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It's been a busy decade or so. Changing from a mommy of two to a mom of three threw me completely out of whack. There's so much more to do and say and buy...and wash. Some weeks I just give up and sit around eating bon bons while watching soap operas...<br />
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Ha! If only.<br />
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So where have I been? Here...there...everywhere...but mostly just home -- or at least nearby. Working, momming, driving, wifeing...<br />
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My little kids turned into the "big kids." (Who knew that would happen??) They're both in college now...in the midst of finals week and preparations for next steps.<br />
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My little baby -- who is anything but little...and a baby -- is now 10 going on 75. (No, seriously. Some days I feel like he's aging quicker than I am.) He's in 6th grade this year...and very nearly finished.<br />
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I just cannot believe we're at this point in the year.<br />
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I'll probably do some kind of recaps, trying to summarize what's been happening in the past <strike>millennium gadzillion</strike> <strike>too many</strike> 10 years or so. But I'll also continue to post about new stuff about what's happening now. Because there's lots of good stuff coming up this month, especially. [Hums "Pomp and Circumstance." and "God Save the Queen" to herself.] And life doesn’t ever stop long enough for me to catch up.<br />
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We've said happy hellos to lots of new friends...and sad goodbyes to too many old friends. We’ve moved from phase to phase, trying to adapt along the way. There’s no parental instruction book. Well, not one written specifically for your kid or mine...or anyone else’s, for that matter.<br />
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2019.<br />
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Nearly halfway through it. Nearly another new decade.<br />
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Musing merrily on a Monday. It's what I used to do...every week...it's what I want to do again.<br />
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So for now, I'll keep this short and (hopefully?) sweet.<br />
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*wink-grin*<br />
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Until the next time!Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07164732848835553863noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28367886.post-76708338399614210392019-05-03T16:27:00.001-04:002019-05-03T16:28:57.041-04:00Friday Fun — and Frogs<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I have always been a fan of frogs. I got a large stuffed frog toy named Flippo for Christmas when I as five. He was my best friend and confidante and helped me immensely through the many moves my family made in the years that followed.</div>
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So I’m using this blog post to promote a fantastical frog book.<br />
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Check it out and enjoy!!<br />
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<br />Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07164732848835553863noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28367886.post-13107166092983380352018-10-30T18:05:00.000-04:002018-10-30T18:18:25.162-04:00Who Me?<div style="color: #454545; font-family: ".SF UI Text"; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;">
<span style="font-family: ".sfuitext"; font-size: 19pt;">My brain is ruminating. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: ".sfuitext"; font-size: 19pt;">The dictionary says to ruminate is “to go over in the mind repeatedly and often casually or slowly.“ </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: ".sfuitext"; font-size: 19pt;">The news media would like us to worry about all of our leaders and what they are saying/doing/thinking/supporting. It’s a “he said/she said” battle of epic proportions. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: ".sfuitext"; font-size: 19pt;">The fact of the matter is that none of the politicians lives with us. Not one of us — unless we are related to them — has daily contact with ANY of them. Our only contact is through what we see, read, and hear. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: ".sfuitext"; font-size: 19pt;">Like everyone else, I find it extremely difficult to separate myself from all that is happening. I feel like I need to know. But what does that do to me and my family and friends? How does it affect those who have direct contact with me?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: ".sfuitext"; font-size: 19pt;">So I got to thinking...who is responsible for fueling all the hateful speech that is going around? Me. And who is responsible for preventing/changing hate speech and thoughts? Me again. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: ".sfuitext"; font-size: 19pt;">It isn’t our president or the media or any other politician or movie star or athlete or singer or anybody at all. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: ".sfuitext"; font-size: 19pt;">If each of us — myself included — spreads love and fairness and grace and civility, it WILL happen. It’s c</span><span style="font-family: ".sfuitext"; font-size: 19pt;">ontagious.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: ".sfuitext"; font-size: 19pt;">No one needs to “kick anyone” who goes low. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: ".sfuitext"; font-size: 19pt;">As I learned several years ago — and continue to learn — grace and love ALWAYS win. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: ".sfuitext"; font-size: 19pt;">Let’s try it. </span></div>
Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07164732848835553863noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28367886.post-16348329055011759872018-01-01T23:07:00.001-05:002018-01-02T00:57:16.921-05:00New Year, Old Reflections -- 2017My favorite thing to buy at the beginning of each year was the Life magazine "Year in Pictures." My parents had a few from over the years, and I loved looking through them at the moments in time that were captured through the photojournalist's lens.<br />
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Here's to looking back at 2017 through our pictures. So many photos (whittled down from 1,000s to a mere 400 or so)...and so many smiles -- many, many more than the last few years.<br />
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God is good to us! He has carried us through quite a lot in the past few years, especially. And being able to recap the year through photos is always a joy. Seeing memories forgotten already...truly priceless.<br />
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In an age of constantly changing technology, what are your favorite ways to keep memories alive year to year?<br />
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Should <i>old</i> acquaintance be forgot,</div>
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and never brought to mind?</div>
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Should <i>old</i> acquaintance be forgot,</div>
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and <i>old</i> lang syne?</div>
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For auld lang syne, my <i>dear</i>,</div>
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for auld lang syne,</div>
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we'll take a cup of kindness yet,</div>
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for auld lang syne.</div>
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And surely you'll <i>buy</i> your pint <i>cup</i>!</div>
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and surely I'll <i>buy</i> mine!</div>
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And we'll take a cup o' kindness yet,</div>
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for auld lang syne.</div>
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We <i>two have</i> run about the <i>slopes</i>,</div>
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and <i>picked</i> the <i>daisies</i> fine;</div>
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But we've wandered <i>many</i> a weary <i>foot</i>,</div>
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We <i>two have paddled</i> in the <i>stream</i>,</div>
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But seas between us <i>broad have roared</i></div>
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And there's a hand my trusty <i>friend</i>!</div>
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And <i>give me</i> a hand o' thine!</div>
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And we'll <i>take</i> a right <i>good-will draught</i>,</div>
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for auld lang syne.</div>
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Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07164732848835553863noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28367886.post-48788889300031927732017-12-04T18:17:00.001-05:002017-12-10T22:45:41.976-05:00Nah-tivity Nonsense<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I am constantly <strike>irritated</strike> <strike>amused</strike> amazed by the stuff I read on the Internet. That it only really started in the form we now know nearly 20 years ago and people have taken to it -- and complaining on it -- without reservation...is, like, wow!<br />
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We have a generation of people, some call the Millennials. I see them more as the Baby Boomers 2.0. They seem to complain about, er, um, question everything.<br />
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I came across a photo the other day about a nativity set someone had at her house.<br />
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She brought up the idea that white entitlement or privilege was prevalent in Christmas stuff, that her nativity scene figurines were blond and that made them from Ohio (not sure how many blonds live in Ohio, but idle grass...) She claims that they are miscolored because Jesus was Jewish...and this is apparently a #christmasfail.<br />
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Three people agreed with her -- with vehemence. One even complained how she'd been on a quest for a "non-blond" more "culturally accurate" set. She promised to get two, if she found one.<br />
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First of all, none of us was there. There are no photos, pictures, drawing, paintings of Jesus and his parents at that time period. Why couldn't they be blond? What is that "white privilege" or "entitlement"? Blond people exist today. Who's to say they weren't the coloring of the first people and the rest changed pigmentation as people moved away from the Garden area? No one knows what color came first. And who really cares? At the end of the day, we are all people with different pigmentation. That's it. No colors. Just people.<br />
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I know. I know. Spoken like a true white person.<br />
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Sigh.<br />
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Second of all, the person in question <i>is</i> white. Or, as I prefer to say, Caucasian. What gives? Why is she "white bashing" when that's her own background? It seems to me that a person who bashes her own skin tone is just trying to be part of the crowd, beating the tired drum of the liberals of our country. She has no credibility.<br />
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Thump. Thump. Sigh.<br />
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And third of all, who cares? I know I already added that to my "first of all," but it bears repeating. I am white and my family is white. Not one of us is blond, but that doesn't mean I can't enjoy a nativity set that is blond...and white...and in a wooden building -- eek! -- (because they apparently used a cave). The idea is that a nativity scene -- with a little baby Jesus -- points us to the true meaning of the holiday. Does it really matter if he's black, white, brown, green with polka dots? Not really. It's something we bring out once-a-year for about a month or so. We add it to the other decorations and gaze at it occasionally. We don't worship it. We don't think it's the be-all-to-end-all. It's just part of the scenery.<br />
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And if having a more culturally appropriate set is important to your family because culturally you <i>are</i> different, then kudos to you. But if you're white and your set is white, enjoy it for what it is: a small reminder that Christmas is a gift, a blessing, a privilege in itself -- not another time to complain and jump on the liberal millennial band wagon.<br />
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Your whiteness precludes you from that.<br />
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Let's just be people. Together. Celebrating. Worshiping. Without reservation.<br />
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That's Heaven.Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07164732848835553863noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28367886.post-7529502755061987712017-11-10T07:30:00.001-05:002017-11-13T11:58:05.889-05:00Just Breathe...<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKTikTR2pSIuxA80yi_h4BQp8JvewQogbFuevO8em8stojKiCV6h-9WJ3KlAHcxrn55ipMbBkvHB84xje6M3hKpyHFMjc0t0MIuTI6jyeUF2rLmmNsUCXr99wU-25siaiEQya7/s1600/5364.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="250" data-original-width="250" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKTikTR2pSIuxA80yi_h4BQp8JvewQogbFuevO8em8stojKiCV6h-9WJ3KlAHcxrn55ipMbBkvHB84xje6M3hKpyHFMjc0t0MIuTI6jyeUF2rLmmNsUCXr99wU-25siaiEQya7/s1600/5364.jpg" /></a>Okay, in an effort to breathe new life -- or maybe just some life -- back into my lovable blog, I began to think again about posts. That's what it's all about: Thinking <i>about</i> blogging...and thinking <i>in blog posts</i>.<br />
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Seems odd, right?<br />
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Early on, when I was blogging nearly daily, the trend had not really caught on with anybody, except us "cool kids."<br />
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But then Twitter happened. And blogging seemed to be a lot more work because why write an entire post about something when you can summarize it in 140 characters. And once you start thinking in 140-character bursts, well, you basically rewire your brain.<br />
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Am I right?<br />
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Not necessarily.<br />
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I enjoyed Twitter for about a minute or two. (It was an odd world. Odder now than then.)<br />
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Then Facebook happened. I resisted at first. It seemed another odd and silly place. But, as anyone who has ever watched even one episode of <i>Star Trek</i> knows, resistance is futile.<br />
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Facebook is the killer of blogdom. I'm convinced of that. It should be a helpful aid or another platform whereby you can share your blog...<br />
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But it's not.<br />
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It's easy.<br />
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It's addictive.<br />
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And so my brain began to think in longer-than-140-characters moments, but still shorter-than-actual-blogpost moments.<br />
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Yet, I've stumbled on and tried to continue my blog. I love doing it. It's such a great way to keep myself writing daily (or thereabouts) and an even better way to clear some of the "clutter" in my noggin.<br />
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So, today, this very morning, my brain thought up a post. I thought again in a blog post. And I was exhilarated and decided to sit down immediately and write it out. But I had to write this explanation first, which may have taken my brainpower and time briefly.<br />
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Sigh.<br />
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Still in all, here I am breathing some new life into my old friend.Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07164732848835553863noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28367886.post-71166273309201989242017-08-18T17:48:00.002-04:002017-08-19T10:34:06.580-04:00In Times Like These...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 10.0pt;">I love the way they fall together to create sentences, forming
stories or poems or songs. I love to hear the jingle of the letters’ sounds
together – sometimes making onomatopoeia. I loved teaching my children how to
read and process the sounds together to make words. I loved sharing my favorite
words with them: saunter, facetious, whimsical.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 10.0pt;">But
words don’t define me. I am not a collection of static letters or sounds. That’s
when words lose their meaning.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 10.0pt;">I
am a living, breathing, ever-changing human. I am not what people call me,
either in race or religion or creed. My beliefs are my own, not formed by a
stereotype or what I am told they are or should be. They are mine. And the
basic core of my soul stays the same, but my thoughts are fluid as I observe and
grow and process all that is around me. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 10.0pt;">When
we allow our televisions and newspapers and online sources to tell us what to
believe about who we are and what we are, it’s time to UNPLUG. When we listen
and believe only what we are told, we have given up the power of words. We have
allowed fear to own us.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 10.0pt;">So
many people are complaining about the violence we hear and read about…constantly…the
“ugliness” that is our world. I didn’t see it personally. I only read about it.
What if it wasn’t as bad as described? What if “catastrophic” was an
exaggeration of the events…made to cause fear and panic and anxiety in me?
Catastrophic has always existed…and recent events are nothing new. And, yet, losing
one person is always tragic to me. Losing three…even more so. Those people have
their own people, who knew and loved and cherished them. And now they are
without them. That makes me incredibly sad.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 10.0pt;">But
fearful?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 10.0pt;">Instead
of concentrating on what’s happening and being afraid, what if we looked around
us at the world we can actually see? Look at the multitudes of flowers all
around us, full of color and blooming in the final weeks of summertime. Listen
to the giggles we hear from children running on a playground, enjoying their
freedom and the innocence of just being. Watch a family or group of friends laugh, enjoying a dinner together.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 10.0pt;">Why
can’t we grab hold of these truths? </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 10.0pt;">They are RIGHT. IN. FRONT. OF. OUR. EYES. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 10.0pt;">They are real and happening right now. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 10.0pt;">Why can’t we let go of what the media
wants us to hear, to believe, to own. Realize that we may not have “gotten our
way” in the election, but then neither did half the country in the last two
elections…and we all made it through just fine. What if we accept what is and
have faith that goodness exists and that we’ll all be okay…goodness is in children,
in furry animals, in chocolate, in a drive through farmland, in a walk through
a city, in the rising and setting of the sun. What if we believed in the good
of mankind again – in those we know and see and love around us? What if we “agree
to disagree” and go back to making cookies for each other or sharing ice cream
cones or game nights or movies together? What if we ONLY try to make the small
sphere we live in a better place for our children to live and grow up in, refuse
to do anything else or read anything else or fear anymore?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 10.0pt;">What
else can we do? Really?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 10.0pt;">For
better or worse, this is the world we live in. We only see and feel and hear a
small sphere of it, a mere sliver of all that is out there. Why not concentrate
on that for a change, count our blessings and realize that, yes, we are sinful,
but through God’s mercy, we are good? We are safe. We are alive. And we are free.
<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 10.0pt;">Then
our words will be meaningful again. Because their power will be ours – not the
media’s or government’s. Just ours.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 10.0pt;">It
starts with a simple phrase: I love you, my friend. Not because we are the same,
but because we are different.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 10.0pt;">I am NOT "white" or "conservative" or "hateful" or "mean." I am just Susie.</span></div>
Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07164732848835553863noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28367886.post-5674785874942818252017-08-17T18:17:00.000-04:002017-08-18T18:19:53.401-04:00Perspectives<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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My parents always taught us to look at both sides of something. Sometimes that meant playing the "devil's advocate," but it was still an important lesson. Things aren't always one-sided, even if we want -- or hope for -- them to be.<br />
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This was an important tool to have in my toolbox when I became a reporter. It's easy to want to make the narrative fit the issue. But is the narrative truth...or at the very least, the <i>whole</i> truth? How much braver to look at an issue and face that it might be different than we wanted -- or hoped.<br />
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No one is perfect. Everyone has some skeletons in his/her closet.<br />
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A diamond has multiple sides, and the sun hits each side differently, causing a different amount of sparkle and shine and light. Just the same, people have different ways of seeing the world -- or even an event.<br />
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None is wrong...just <i>different</i>.<br />
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Maybe when we finally realize and grasp this, the world will become a better place?<br />
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Maybe.Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07164732848835553863noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28367886.post-22597481748603237882017-08-16T18:12:00.000-04:002017-08-18T18:13:09.809-04:00Worded Wednesday<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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From Ethan's "2012 Art Collection."</div>
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<br />Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07164732848835553863noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28367886.post-45267849541319953822017-02-01T21:02:00.000-05:002017-02-07T21:05:16.533-05:00Wordless Wednesday<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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